Wedding financing: Options & Opinions
Budget. Cost. Price. Expense. These are not the first words that come to mind when you think of walking down the aisle. However, how and by whom the marvelous festivity is going to be paid for, is the cornerstone of what kind of wedding to dream about and create.
Traditionally speaking, the wedding fund is supplied by the blushing bride’s father. These fathers consider it a loving, farewell gift to their daughters after having raised and cared for them. They may also see it as the traditional final step in the father-daughter relationship. In this case, the bride’s parents’ opinions should be taken into consideration since they will be paying.
Today it has been common for the families of the bride and groom to share in the cost. This has been done to deal with increasing costs or to create a greater budget for a more extravagant affair. Again, the two sets of parents will probably want a say in what choices are made, which could make the decision making process a little tedious.
For the more independent couples, there is the growing trend of the bride and groom paying for the wedding themselves – entirely. This is more common when the couple is composed of two working professionals who no longer feel comfortable with the idea of their parents taking care of the bill. This budget style is also popular among those wanting total autonomy over their decisions. However, it is dangerous to fall into the “debt trap” when paying it all yourselves. Careful, who wants to start a marriage in debt?
Another option that seems to be popular in the Rio Grande Valley is the use of “Padrinos” i.e. “Godparents”. These couples (or in some cases individuals) are asked to finance a specific part of the wedding ceremony or reception. Though the original purpose of this religious title was for those who participated in the Catholic wedding ceremony, it is now shared with these financial helpers as a sign of appreciation. Yet again, their opinions may have to be considered or they may stipulate a budget for you to work with.
Though there are many options in the finance department, it is important to remember that the choice ultimately lies in what fits you as a couple the best. Are you a traditionalist? Have you been independent for many years? Do your friends and family want to help? The only way to start a smooth wedding planning process is for you to agree on what will make your dream wedding possible.
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